Hi guys,
I've been doing martial arts for 20 years now and I've always considered  myself as averagely fit and strong. I used to go to the gym and lift  what I thought were heavy weights for a girl - that was until I met my  awesome personal trainer and now I am lifting weights I never imagined I  could lift! And guess what girls - I HAVEN'T BULKED UP!
The common myth among women is that if you lift heavy you'll end up like  Fatima Whitbread on steroids (sorry Fatima) but it just isn't the case.  I have been astonished as I have been upping my weights nearly every  week and I haven't got bulky, just more sculpted. That brings me on to  my next point - I could lift all the weights in the world but if I was  eating crap I wouldn't get the results I wanted. I believe that 70% of  your training should be done in the kitchen - there's no point having  fab abs if you can't see them behind your muffin top!
I'll keep you posted as I progress - I think lifting weights must be  addictive because since I started increasing the weight I've become a  bit obsessed! I never felt like this about running on the treadmill or  doing classes!

